As I write these things, I feel hesitation because I know I’m making excuses. I could do these things anytime—I don’t need to wait for the perfect moment. Flowers are still sold in the winter. I can save money little by little. But I get caught up in the stories I tell myself about why I can’t do the things I want now. If I keep waiting, it will always be later—but later isn’t guaranteed.

The fear aspect often stems from not wanting to fail. Facing what failure means to us is crucial. We create boxes that shape our reality based on societal norms, which can be difficult to navigate.

Wishing is often dismissed as childish or delusional, but I disagree. I have lived at the opposite end of the spectrum, in a place devoid of hope, and I refuse to accept that perspective any longer.

Being the main character in your life means taking responsibility for your growth, relationships, and happiness. Growth requires courage and self-awareness.

Self-care is often overlooked when life feels overwhelming, but it’s a vital part of staying productive and balanced.

“it’s important not to hold onto anger or resentment toward yourself for those actions (as long as they haven’t caused harm to others). Harboring such negativity creates an emotional barrier that affects your self-perception.”